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 ## Purpose
 
-This document describes how to restore the entire KiteStacks platform if the primary server (Assassin) fails.
+This document describes how to restore the entire KiteStacks platform if a
+host fails. As of 2026-06-10, KiteStacks runs active-active across two hosts
+plus Cloudflare Tunnel, so no single host is a hard dependency for the site
+to stay up.
 
 ## Current Infrastructure
 
 Primary Production:
-- Host: Assassin
-- IP: 192.168.1.205
+- Host: monk
+- LAN IP: 192.168.1.205
 
-Cloud Backup:
-- Host: kscloud1
+Cloud Failover (PERMANENT, active-active - NOT cold standby):
+- Host: kscloud1 (Hetzner VPS)
 - Public IP: 5.78.233.28
+- Tailscale IP: 100.123.254.52
+- Runs a full replica of all 9 services
+
+assassin (T14): retired/OFF, no longer part of the topology.
 
 Domains:
-- www.kitestacks.com
-- gitforge.kitestacks.com
-- www-backup.kitestacks.com
-- git-backup.kitestacks.com
+- www.kitestacks.com (+ ai, auth, gitforge, grafana, kavita, links, status, tasks)
+- www-backup.kitestacks.com / git-backup.kitestacks.com (kscloud1 direct
+  A-records via local Caddy on port 80, separate from the Tunnel)
+
+Cloudflare Tunnel:
+- 3 connectors load-balance ACTIVE-ACTIVE across all 9 *.kitestacks.com
+  hostnames - no primary/backup priority.
 
 ## Recovery Priority
 
@@ -31,20 +41,35 @@ Domains:
 
 ## Current Backup Status
 
-Website Backup:
-- Operational on kscloud1
+Website:
+- Full replica running on kscloud1, served live via the Tunnel.
 
-Forgejo Backup:
-- Operational on kscloud1
+Forgejo:
+- Full replica running on kscloud1, but with a SEPARATE database - repos and
+  commits pushed to monk's Forgejo do NOT appear on kscloud1's Forgejo (and
+  vice versa). Accepted tradeoff for uptime.
+- The portal's Recent Activity widget on BOTH hosts queries monk's Forgejo
+  directly (FORGEJO_API_BASE -> http://100.85.209.116:3006 over Tailscale
+  from kscloud1, http://localhost:3006 on monk) so it stays consistent
+  regardless of which connector serves the page.
 
-Git Repository:
-- Synced to both Forgejo instances
+Authentik:
+- Shared Postgres+Redis hosted on kscloud1, reachable only over Tailscale
+  (100.123.254.52). Both monk's and kscloud1's authentik+worker use this
+  single database/cache - fixes invalid_grant SSO caused by active-active
+  routing splitting an OAuth flow across connectors.
+
+Other stateful apps (kavita, karakeep, openproject, etc.):
+- Fresh/separate data on kscloud1 - may show different/stale data depending
+  on which connector serves a request. Accepted as the cost of guaranteed
+  uptime.
 
 ## Validation Checklist
 
-- [ ] Website accessible
-- [ ] Backup website accessible
-- [ ] Forgejo operational
-- [ ] Backup Forgejo operational
+- [ ] Website accessible (www.kitestacks.com)
+- [ ] kscloud1 replica accessible (www-backup.kitestacks.com)
+- [ ] Forgejo operational (gitforge.kitestacks.com)
+- [ ] kscloud1 Forgejo replica operational (git-backup.kitestacks.com)
+- [ ] Authentik SSO works (auth.kitestacks.com)
 - [ ] Cloudflare DNS verified
-- [ ] Cloudflare Tunnel verified
+- [ ] Cloudflare Tunnel: all 3 connectors healthy